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A success message does not prove an email reached your inbox. It can mean only that the website accepted a submission or that its mail function handed the message to a sending service. Test the complete route from the form to the receiving mailbox.
Find where the journey stops
Check whether the form validates and submits, whether the server accepts the request and whether the mail service reports a failure. Then inspect the destination, spam folder and any available delivery logs. Do not repeatedly submit a customer's private information while testing.
Use a clearly labelled test message and an address you control. Include a unique reference so you can match the submission with a notification and acknowledgement. Record the result rather than assuming that silence means the form never submitted.
Check the sender setup
Use an appropriate address on your own domain as the sender, with the visitor's address as the reply destination where supported. Review the actual mail provider, authentication records and any recent DNS changes. A provider or hosting support team can help interpret delivery errors.
WordPress explicitly notes that a successful return from wp_mail does not automatically establish receipt. That distinction matters when you decide what the visitor sees after sending.
Make failure understandable
The form should preserve the visitor's message when submission fails and offer a direct contact alternative. An acknowledgement should identify the enquiry without promising a response time you cannot maintain.
My own enquiry upgrade was tested through both notification and acknowledgement delivery. Read Case study: replacing my message-preparation form with direct enquiries, explore WordPress support, or report your form problem. You can also review my portfolio. For usability around the submission, see What makes an enquiry form easier for everyone to use?.
Before calling a form fixed, complete a fresh test and find the matching message in the intended mailbox. External delivery may still differ between providers, so continue monitoring real enquiries after launch.